You can’t be perfect in all that you do, so there is no reason not to assume that you are going to make some mistakes along the way when you are trying to attract a woman. I think that it would be safe to say that the only guys who don’t make mistakes when it comes to attraction or dating are the guys who aren’t trying to attract or aren’t actively dating. The good thing about attracting a woman is, you don’t have to be perfect to make her attracted to you. You can make some mistakes along the way and still end up getting the girl.
However, you probably want to make as few mistakes as possible, and that is why you need to know what ones are good to avoid and which ones that you are likely to make.
Here are 4 mistakes that you are likely to make that you may want to avoid if you can when you are trying to attract a woman:
1) Setting your sights on one woman only.
This is one of those mistakes that doesn’t seem like one until you have the gift of hindsight and you look back and realize that focusing only on one woman makes you feel like you have to get everything right. The feeling that you get when there is more than one woman in your sights is great because you don’t feel like you only have one shot to get it right. That feeling is priceless.
2) Trying to win her over by sucking up to her.
This has to be among the most prolific of the mistakes that men make when they are trying to attract a woman. You think that sucking up to her is going to be a good thing, but most of the time – it’s not. It’s a sure fire way to make her feel like you are just saying whatever you think is going to get you into her pants and that is not a good way to go about making a woman want you.
3) Feeling insecure the moment that she seems a little distant from you.
Insecurity around women is the one thing that just about every guy has to deal with, but for some guys, the problem is extreme, and that is a bad thing. They feel like the moment that a woman acts even just a little bit distant, that it means that she is pulling away and then they try too hard to pull her back to them.
4) Not understanding what makes a woman feel sexual attraction.
If you don’t know what it takes to make a woman feel sexually attracted to you, then you are probably going to have to deal with the inevitable outcome that you are going to end up being friends with most of the women you want to date. No matter what, if you want a woman to be attracted to you, then it has to include sexual attraction.